For the last couple of days I have been feeling really down that I have not found my passion / calling in life. I even needed to skip work last Tuesday it got so bad.
But then I realised that I do not need to know my passion now, and if I did, what kind of passion would it have been? I mean, what have I really experienced? I could have confused a passion with a skill or even something I like, then wake up at 40 with the rest of the world and go buy myself a motorbike.
So I have decided to chill and see where the breeze takes me and jump at any opportunity that arises. I still have my ultimate goal in mind, but the plan is still a bit blury as I still don't know what I would love to do to get me there. But I will get there and I will find something I love to do.
Thursday, 11 January 2007
Monday, 08 January 2007
Reprogram your life
In order to get over the irrational fear we feel when we make decisions we have to change the way we work inside. To do this we need to reprogram ourselves to ignore what we have been told. The funny thing is that we have always been told “you can’t do that” or “there is no money in that” by people that have no idea, and even funnier is that we listen to them. I have now changed my ways. Whenever I hear someone saying “I can’t do that” I think to myself “I can do that”. Your perception becomes your reality.
Continuously telling yourself that you can rather than you can’t is the start of reprogramming your subconscious. As I have stated, your conscious is the path to your subconscious (previous posts). But many times they oppose each other because the conscious is full of new ways, but the subconscious full of old ways (what we have been told). If the conscious gives up then the subconscious overwrites it, however, if we continuously refresh our conscious eventually our subconscious will absorb those thoughts.
One way of doing this is by using affirmations. I know it’s a weird concept, kind of like going mad… Keep telling yourself that you are successful and that you are the person you want to be. Then it will happen. Your conscious will start to overwrite your subconscious and will start driving you towards what you want. REMEMBER that this works both ways! So be careful what you say to yourself.
Emotions also influence your subconscious and visa versa, so try stay happy and in an affirmative mood. Being positive I not enough, as you can be positive about failure, being affirmative is a different state of being. Yesterday influences today, so never finish a day off on a negative note. If you cannot fix what is making you feel negative, then try this. Every night write a gratitude list, write what you are thankful for, like your girlfriend or something you did or learnt that day. It is a great way to finish the day off on a good note and will allow you to start tomorrow fresh and without baggage. Living an affirmative life will then flow down into your subconscious and lead you to a greater things.
Reprogramming your subconscious is a long process, don’t think that it will happen over night as it won’t. This blog is part of my process.
Continuously telling yourself that you can rather than you can’t is the start of reprogramming your subconscious. As I have stated, your conscious is the path to your subconscious (previous posts). But many times they oppose each other because the conscious is full of new ways, but the subconscious full of old ways (what we have been told). If the conscious gives up then the subconscious overwrites it, however, if we continuously refresh our conscious eventually our subconscious will absorb those thoughts.
One way of doing this is by using affirmations. I know it’s a weird concept, kind of like going mad… Keep telling yourself that you are successful and that you are the person you want to be. Then it will happen. Your conscious will start to overwrite your subconscious and will start driving you towards what you want. REMEMBER that this works both ways! So be careful what you say to yourself.
Emotions also influence your subconscious and visa versa, so try stay happy and in an affirmative mood. Being positive I not enough, as you can be positive about failure, being affirmative is a different state of being. Yesterday influences today, so never finish a day off on a negative note. If you cannot fix what is making you feel negative, then try this. Every night write a gratitude list, write what you are thankful for, like your girlfriend or something you did or learnt that day. It is a great way to finish the day off on a good note and will allow you to start tomorrow fresh and without baggage. Living an affirmative life will then flow down into your subconscious and lead you to a greater things.
Reprogramming your subconscious is a long process, don’t think that it will happen over night as it won’t. This blog is part of my process.
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